Forgiveness is not often the first thing that pops into our mind when a heated argument begins, or a miss communication spirals out of control. Even if it is, it seems imposable to forgive right in the heat of the moment. But why? I understand the mental and emotional rollercoaster and turmoil that presents itself when going through any kind of conflict. We hurt, feel misused, treated unfairly and are brought low! We want the other person to not get off scotch free and to realize the depth of the pain they caused us. They need to make some kind of restitution in order to make up for everything. All of these feeling are normal and needed even… but so are some other important considerations when dealing with pain. #1 what you feel towards others is a reflection of what you think about yourself. Imagine for a moment that someone you love, admire or deal with in your life makes a mistake, hurts your feelings or just doesn’t give the support in the way you need....
As a parent it seems like there are more than a million differing forms of advice from people, books, and internet sources ready to dish out advice on what the best strategies are for parenting and they all include the handy phrases like “if you want your kid to be successful or happy follow these exact steps”. So my question is how do you sift through all the different views out there? How do you know you’re doing things right? Trial and error seam too risky when dealing with another person’s success and overall growth in life, right? When we had our first baby girl she was perfect in every way. Her brown hair and big brown eyes brightened every day and she was so easy, a great sleeper, she was always sensitive and observant and did everything we asked her to do for the most part parenting was a breeze. I thought we must be doing everything right and then number two came. Our bouncy active beautiful blond haired and sky blue eyed girl flipped our whole world! She too was perfect...